female, 28, Singaporean looking for ‘expensive’ Boyfriend

January 7, 2014
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SINGAPORE – Mandy Du, 28, announce to the whole world via web that she is in search of a boyfriend. “Her expectation of boyfriend is extra like a ATM machine”, commented by a citizen.

Below is the assertion she wrote:

“Hi everybody! Firstly, I am 28 years previous this yr and I am presently dwelling in Perth, Australia. if you do not have a photograph, please do not ship me a request. And do not anticipate me to make the primary transfer- I assume guys ought to provoke the dialog. Once I settle for your request you have to contact me inside 24 hours. If you don’t I will take that as you’re not thinking about speaking to me and I will delete you. I am not a affected person individual and I particularly hate losing my time and ready for guys who’re by no means on-line to speak.

I have very costly style and I benefit from the finer issues in life. I am not a easy woman with easy tastes. I merely refuse to have a boring housewife life the place I simply handle the house and maintain the youngsters and never have a lifetime of my very own. I need a man who will present me with an extravagant way of life- he should be capable of take me on costly cruises and holidays and keep at H star inns and dine on the best eating places and take me on purchasing sprees. I need a man who treats me like a princess on a regular basis.

I do not give second possibilities. I consider giving second possibilities is like giving an individual a second bullet to shoot you with as a result of they missed you the primary time. And I definitely do not have ‘silly’ written on my brow. I don’t forgive simply and in some conditions I have by no means forgiven individuals in any respect to this present day. I don’t belief individuals simply both so that you’re going to need to make the additional effort to realize my belief and most significantly, to maintain it.

Just as a result of I’m an Asian woman, it doesn’t suggest I am subservient or shy. I defy the Asian woman stereotype and I do not do as I am informed. I bend the principles, I converse up and will not take crap from individuals. I am not submissive in any means.

I won’t entertain sleazy guys, impolite idiots or guys which are filled with themselves. There’s a effective line between self-confidence and vanity.

I need a man free from his previous relationships and able to decide to me and me solely. His relationship historical past have to be precisely that: historical past. He should not linger on ideas and emotions for this previous girlfriends. Make positive you utterly recover from them first. He should solely have eyes and the guts for me. I won’t accept much less.

I need a man who will financially present for me. And I should have the ability to select if I need to work or not. A genuinely good man will give me that freedom of selection. And if I work, I ought to get to maintain what I earn all to myself. If you are frightened of that, you then’re not the man for me and you need to in all probability bugger off proper about now.

I’ll inform you upfront that I am in search of a wealthy man. He have to be financially capable of pay for EVERYTHING- payments, petrol, groceries, mortgage, youngsters, wedding ceremony, honeymoon, and so forth…and I shouldn’t should pitch in a single cent.

I am NOT paying for something. With me, there isn’t any such factor as ‘going halves’, ‘you pay this, I pay that’ or ‘let’s cut up the bills’- none of that nonsense. I consider the man pays for every part and I am by no means backing down from that ever. If that doesn’t go well with you, don’t click on the ‘contact’ button. It’s easy. I was raised in a really Asian tradition and this idea of halving family payments and stuff is extraordinary and I am not about to start out that ridiculous development.

This idea of mine just isn’t up for debate and it isn’t open for dialogue or negotiation. It’s actually easy: Guy pays the whole lot, woman (me) pays nothing. That’s it. Very straight-ahead. No faffing round.

If you’re a enterprise proprietor I am NOT going to work with you or for you. It’s YOUR enterprise. You run it. Don’t contain me in any respect. The solely factor I will contain myself with is the revenue you earn from operating your enterprise. That’s about it. Don’t anticipate me to work at what you are promoting. I’ve had a man like that earlier than so I dumped him on the spot. You’re no totally different. If I can do it to him, I can definitely do it to you.

Money is the second most essential factor to me after good well being. Poverty scares me greater than demise itself. I’ve been in conditions with out cash and I’ve had a relationship the place the man was poor. I don’t need to go there ever once more. I additionally need the kind of man who would give me entry to his cash with out questions with out reservations. It’s about belief and the man I finally select should be capable of give me that.

I need a man who buys me presents, plenty of presents comparable to costly jewelry, perfumes, garments, shock getaways, takes me out to fancy dinners and balls and is all the time prepared to go to the ends of the earth to ensure I keep comfortable on a regular basis.

He MUST have a excessive-paying, safe and a correct job. So working at Maccas is certainly out of the query. I do not thoughts having a companion who works away (eg: within the mines).

He additionally should not go to pubs and golf equipment in any respect- I completely forbid it and he should not contact or exit with feminine associates. I don’t have any buddies who’re guys and I need a man who doesn’t have any feminine buddies both. If you need to maintain them, don’t contact me. He completely should not be into disgusting issues like pornography.

Also, with all due respect, please do not contact me in case you are bodily disabled in any form or type. Frankly I don’t need to spend the remainder of my valuable life nursing a person baby with a situation.

I am NOT getting right into a relationship the place I simply reside with the man eternally and by no means get an engagement ring and by no means get married. I’m not that sort of woman. And I am most definitely am not a unfastened cannon like most women are. “If you prefer it it is best to have put a hoop on it.”

I have very Asian values and I take relationships and marriage very significantly.

I need a man who finds me irresistibly cute and delightful even when I have trackies and no make-up on. The good man for me can be the sort that loves me whether or not I look glamorous or not. The good man should not strain me for something. Yes, I meant ANYTHING. And that features that ONE THING guys. You know what I’m speaking about. Don’t act such as you’re harmless. If he even ‘hints’ about it, it is ‘bye bye’ ceaselessly. I imply it.

He should love me as a lot even when I achieve weight and look fats. He should love me unconditionally. No matter what the circumstances, the right man would NEVER depart me.

I have to be quantity B in your life. I should come earlier than something and anybody else. I won’t settle for something much less. I should all the time be a precedence. I won’t take the again seat. If you assume you’re going to wrestle placing me primary, I gained’t be inquisitive about speaking to you.

Guys with exes who’re nonetheless tagging alongside, with youngsters, divorced, separated, going via divorce or separation- please don’t contact me in any respect.”

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